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Signs of Academic Masking

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How to Use This Checklist

Read through each sign below. Check the box if you've noticed this behaviour in the child you're observing.

Don't worry about perfection – you're looking for patterns, not checking every box. Even a few signs across different categories can signal that masking may be happening.

Time needed: 5 minutes.

Emotional Signs

Appears quieter than their natural self

More compliant and "easy" than usual

Emotional withdrawal or shutdown

Sudden outbursts or frustration (often after school)

Anxiety or nervousness before school/exams

Difficulty expressing emotions or needs

Becomes noticeably different at home vs. school

Academic Performance patterns

High effort, inconsistent or lower results

Performance drops when workload increases

Significant gap between verbal and written work

Can explain concepts clearly but struggles to write them down

Performance drops after taking a break (even brief)

More tutoring/practice doesn't improve outcomes

Inconsistency that confuses teachers ("was doing so well before")

Physical/Behavioral Signs

After-school exhaustion or meltdown

Complaints of tiredness or headaches

Changes in sleep patterns or appetite

Difficulty transitioning between activities

Hyperactivity or restlessness at home after school

Avoidance of homework, reading or writing in general

Perfectionism or anxiety over small mistakes

Learning Strategy Signs

Relies heavily on one learning method

Struggles with organizing or planning work

Difficulty retaining information from revision

Can't apply learning to new contexts

Works much slower than peers despite understanding

Needs explicit step-by-step instructions

Loses track of multi-step tasks

Social/Classroom Signs

Seems "fine" or well-liked by teachers

Doesn't raise hand or participate in class

Follows rules precisely but seems stressed

Appears to "fit in" but feels isolated

Selective about which subjects/teachers they engage with

Becomes anxious with changes to routine

Appears to be "coasting" or underperforming potential

Next Steps

If you notice multiple signs across categories, it's worth consulting with a professional. Here's where to start:

Start here:

Educational Therapist or Educational Psychologist — Can help assist with learning differences, executive functioning challenges, and processing issues. I can help you understand what's happening, guide specific strategies, and recommend environmental changes to support the child's learning style.
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School Counselor or School Psychologist — Can observe the child in the academic environment and coordinate support within the school setting.
Developmental Paediatrician — Can assess overall development and rule out medical or developmental factors.

If needed:

Clinical Psychologist — If there are concerns about underlying conditions like ADHD, anxiety, or other mental health factors that need formal assessment and diagnosis.